Hard vs Big

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When I am fully hard, my wife always comments on it positively. She knows she is being fucked by someone who wants her and that makes her happy. Thus, hardness equals more positive thoughts and comments on her part than my increased size.

On the other hand… she does not like it hard from a cock ring. That makes it too hard for her and she says it feels more like a plastic dildo than my nice meaty, fleshy dick (her words).

That is very interesting about the cock ring.

I took some cinammon got the fakest erection of all time, my gf hated it she said my penis was too hard, wierd

Where did you buy the cinammon and what kind did you use? I want to try that. Just for fun.

Did it look like the photo on the right?

Yeah.. Just to nail the same point everyone is making, my wife also always talks about hardness instead of size. I’ve lived in Japan for a long time and girls there also rarely talk about size. They talk about hardness.

Love the picture Mr. Happy!

Before PE I was very soft but now it’s like rock hard.I think I can even break something with it.

I think it effects them like a wet and red pussy effects us! The more turned on the woman is, the more exciting it is to me. For a woman, and very hard cock lets them know we are very excited, and its exciting for them.

I can’t believe how hard my dick is now with PE. Sometimes it’s too hard it hurts me (no, I don’t use it on myself LOL).

I’d prefer to have dick just a little big bigger than normal with hard rock erection rather than a huge but spongy dick like Jack Napier or John Holmes anyday.

Haha reminds me of a girl going nuts over why my dick isnt hard enough.

She was horny and slapped me shouting “get it hard fucker”..

the harder you are the harder she’ll cum!

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I think we focus way to much on size as men and push aside the issue of cock hardness. I know I did the first 2 years of PE. I worked out vigorously, making my cock as huge as I could get it, and the most of the compliments I got from Wifey were about hardness. “Wow, that thing was hard tonight!”. She would say this because my dick was no longer consistently rock hard as it was before I started PE and also as a younger man.

I say we focus too much on size because of all the charts, surveys, graphs, interviews are all about size. I have not met a woman yet that would NOT prefer hardness over size. I talked to an old gal a few years back and she said, “Yeah, big dicks are nice but they sure don’t get hard!” And this was a bar fly that had seen her share, for sure.

As my dick has gotten bigger over the years of PE, It is STILL the hardness issue that makes Wifey comment a lot more than size. So, I think we should be working more in finding out what makes your dick hard. Is it vitamins? Bathmates? Squats? I honestly believe this should be more of our focus. I think we will have much happier women. Since I backed off the hard workouts and just doing some BM work in the shower, my dick has been rock hard again. I am happier and so is she.
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What is BM work mate? I agree my wife also comments/ complaints me when my dick is at its hardest.

Yep agreed !