Startershiner, how is the difference in length on the Bpel vs Bpfsl ? If your fsl is longer than your erect one, adjust the extender accordingly. Then try to wrap some fabric or gauze ( if that is the right word) around your penis to cover the ridge on the glans and the shaft behind to get better grip for the noose or strap. It should help preventing the noose to slip over the glans. As you say, it seems that you have an elastic unit, but it has its limit, you just got to find it. One other thing - when you mount your penis in the extender, try to keep the glans almost in front of the cradle,( adjust the extender to fit in that way too), and in that way, the noose or strap will pull downwards behind the glans, instead of pulling forward ( through) the glans. Keep us posted, good luck.